Dear Ann Landers,
hat can a mother say to a 14-year-old girl who is spoiled, disobedient and disrespectful and who screams, "I know I'm a rotten kid, but it's your fault. You raised me." I raised her, all right. Her father was too busy playing golf, going fishing and traveling to sales conferences. He never could spare the time to give me a hand with this girl. I need an answer, Ann. -Tongue-Tied Mother in Appleton, Wis.